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About Me

Here's a little bit about me. I am a divorced single mother of four children who wants to share my experiences and help other women face the daily challenges of womanhood. I built this website for all to have a place where they can come and tell all of their troubles to others who are either in similar situations or have been their and can give advice. When I was going through my problems with my ex-husband, I felt I did not have anyone to talk too about the deep problems I was having within my marriage. Any bit of information I would tell to others, would always lead to someone telling me "Girl just leave, you are stupid to stay". What most did not understand is that when your emotions and heart is involved, as well as the time you've invested in the relationship, it is hard to just say "No more of this I can take".  

My Mission is for all to know that a better Life and True Love is among you. Live each day to the fullist and let God work his promises. For in the end you will be a winner. 

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After A Hard Day of Working...
Paradise is around the corner.

When I need to escape, this is the place

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As always thanks for you support and Love. God Bless

Here's a list of some of my favorite movies:

Grease, Steel Magnolia, Beat Street, Godfather I,II,III, Scarface, Valley Girl

Here's a list of some of my favorite music:

R&B, Jazz, Rock, Pop, Reggae, Reggaton, Salsa, Soca, Calypso, Country

Self-Love

The instinct or desire to promote one's own well-being; regard for or love of one's self.

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Co-Dependent

It is an emotional and behavioral condition that affects an individual’s ability to have a healthy, mutually satisfying relationship. It is also known as “relationship addiction” because people with codependency often form or maintain relationships that are one-sided, emotionally destructive and/or abusive.
Co-dependents have low self-esteem and look for anything outside of themselves to make them feel better. They find it hard to “be themselves.” Some try to feel better through alcohol, drugs or nicotine - and become addicted. Others may develop compulsive behaviors like workaholism, gambling, or indiscriminate sexual activity.
They have good intentions. They try to take care of a person who is experiencing difficulty, but the caretaking becomes compulsive and defeating. Co-dependents often take on a martyr’s role and become “benefactors” to an individual in need. A wife may cover for her alcoholic husband; a mother may make excuses for a truant child; or a father may “pull some strings” to keep his child from suffering the consequences of delinquent behavior.

Tips I used For Loving Myself

Learning to love yourself isn't easy, especially if you're a survivor of abuse or neglect. But there are things you can do to boost your self-love.

Make a list of the things you like about yourself.

Make it part of your daily routine to praise something in yourself or think about something you like about yourself.

Love yourself like a friend

Make a note or mental note every time someone says something nice about you.

Have compassion for yourself.

Recognize that the love has to come from you.

Counteract Negative or Critical Thoughts About Yourself

Do Comforting and Nurturing Things For Yourself

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